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Every Day is A New Day

New day.. New office location.. New Seat.. So many new things happened to me before this new year comes. Newness always brings enthusiasm and excitement. Hope this New Year also comes with hand full of surprises as Every Day is a New Day indeed..!!!

12 Most Famous Love Stories of All Time

When: 31 BC Where: Rome and Egypt What’s So Special about Their Love: These two had a love so strong, war was waged against them to break them up. When Mark Antony left his wife, Octavia, for the mesmerizing Cleopatra, Octavia’s brother Octavian brought the army of Rome to destroy them. These two lovers were so entranced with each other that they committed suicide rather than be apart- the ultimate Romeo and Juliet true love story.

Mahatma`s Teachings

I like both the movies MunnaBhai MBBS and Lage Raho MunnaBhai. I dont know about the Gandhi`s political decisions but I believe in his teachings to the nation.

Universal Truth about Boys............lolz!!

Now i truly admit, Google is very very very smart......

Friday, September 20, 2013

Aries Men and Virgo Women - Marriage Compatibility



When the youthful and highly energetic Aries soul comes in contact with a mature and defensive Virgo soul, we can witness a lively blend of emotions and practicality in their relationship. They both are helpful creatures and like to stand beside one another in times of needs but are definitely not in favor of each others’ views towards life.
Aries man is always teeming with fresh ideas and he detests anyone who tries to snatch away his glory. He has a youthful aura which is very charming and attractive. He has na├пve feeling about love but those feelings may sound childish to a tactful Virgo girl. He will always find her to be very pleasant and synchronized lady with purity of love only a Virgo can provide. But at times Aries man in love with a Virgo girl finds it difficult to keep up with her practicality, which makes him outrageous.
While a Virgo woman is best known for her analytical abilities and they can easily determine flaws in anything and everything around them. She has a hard-head in realizing her mistake as she considers herself a pedant. But at the same time she has a very polite manner which is very bright and rejoicing to experience. A Virgo woman in courtship with an Aries man has never to starve for love and loyalty. But she may find him careless and immature sometimes which may disturb her emotional peace of mutual affection for some moments.
A Virgo woman is just a perfect face of delicacy with brains. She has a beautifully imaginative soul but is a butcher when criticizing the weak points of anything or person. Her modesty is adorable and her sheer love is no less than a priceless gift to people around her. Having her as his partner, An Aries man is provided with someone who completely supports all his endeavors and is always there to guide his with her bright and intelligent suggestions. Though this may sometimes challenge his male superiority but now it’s his turn to understand that this is her way to show love and concern. She always likes to be herself and wants her man to be himself; pretention is something out of her dictionary. This not only gives a sense of relief and freedom to him but also builds a mutual trust and understanding between both of them. One thing he has to keep in mind is that she has clarity of vision and can never accept herself to be wrong. She is always correct in her eyes and no one can ever do things in a better way than herself.
An Aries man always provides a Virgo woman with the energy and passion she lacks in her individuality. He is a great admirer of intellect and appreciates every aspect of womanhood of her. But at the same time he hates to be guided and dictated. This hurts his ego and his self-superiority leading to clashes in the relationship. He always supports his Virgo woman in her blues and is beside her in all ups and downs. His loyalty and courage is something that drives her crazy and she is ready to be his co-pilot in all his exciting trips which fills in oomph in her life too. She has to just avoid being bossy with him as this is one thing he can never stand. He can sooth away all the fears and worries of her and teach her to be more open and expressive at least with him. He is a jolly mate being with if treated properly and can take her to the skies of her imaginations and expectations with his passionate ways of loving and expressing.
As the earth and fire combines to make a flowery relationship, they create miracles of empathetic and standing difference with long lasting selfless love. Once they are drenched in purity of love, an Aries male defines love as unselfishness and an awareness of his Virgo woman’s needs and she defines love as spontaneous trust and enthusiasm for his dreams. Both can mend the silver cord that links them together each time it breaks with the magical healing power of their passionate love and strong practicality. After adapting to his attitude towards criticism, the Virgo woman could stop interfering while if needed he can welcome her criticism as a beneficial piece of advice. The peace and happiness of serving is equally distributed in their hearts which such contentment that earth just absorbs the fire so soothingly that even fire forgets to burn… what prevails is a forever warmth which is eternal.
These two could allow their romance to gradually take the form of a less emotionally demanding and more mutual mental respect. A lot of action and attraction prevails in the physical relationship shared by the Aries man and the Virgo woman. But he needs to give time to his lady to refresh her desires and needs. He is truly and blindly romantic whereas realism rules the head and the heart of the Virgo woman. But one thing that is common in these two is purity of love and oneness, which is displayed through their lovemaking. There is immense passion in their physical relationship as their sexual unity provides the cool earth surface with the heat of fire. He exudes a lot of passion but at the same time he is very affectionate towards her and she really appreciates these small nuances displayed by him. He should understand that she cannot match up to the level of his passion towards the physical relationship because she tends to carry a lot of baggage in her mind, and as a result her degree of devotion towards the physical part of the relationship is a bit less than him.
Virgos and Aries are on different wavelengths and though Virgos find Aries as exciting people and Aries always admire the intelligence of a Virgo; their relationship has to look forward to take up their differences in proper manner. Though Aries are very innocent and lovable but their ego and aggressiveness always dampen the spirit of a fragile Virgo. And on the other hand Virgos are no doubt very honest and polite people but their criticism and shyness always give a set back to the confident and excited Aries person. But they have a lot to learn from each other. When he starts understanding and respecting her personality, then she opens up and discusses her problems with him. And once he becomes aware that her reason of criticism is just her attitude and nothing personal, he starts taking her advice seriously.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Radha Krishna




рд╕्рд╡рд░्рдЧ рдоें рд╡िрдЪрд░рдг рдХрд░рддे рд╣ुрдП
рдЕрдЪाрдирдХ рдПрдХ рджुрд╕рд░े рдХे рд╕ाрдордиे рдЖ рдЧрдП
рд╡िрдЪрд▓िрдд рд╕े рдХृрд╖्рдг ,рдк्рд░рд╕рди्рдирдЪिрдд рд╕ी рд░ाрдзा
рдХृрд╖्рдг рд╕рдХрдкрдХाрдП, рд░ाрдзा рдоुрд╕्рдХाрдИ
рдЗрд╕рд╕े рдкрд╣рд▓े рдХृрд╖्рдг рдХुрдЫ рдХрд╣рддे рд░ाрдзा рдмोрд▓ рдЙрдаी
рдХैрд╕े рд╣ो рдж्рд╡ाрд░рдХाрдзीрд╢ ?
рдЬो рд░ाрдзा рдЙрди्рд╣ें рдХाрди्рд╣ा рдХाрди्рд╣ा рдХрд╣ рдХे рдмुрд▓ाрддी рдеी
рдЙрд╕рдХे рдоुрдЦ рд╕े рдж्рд╡ाрд░рдХाрдзीрд╢ рдХा рд╕ंрдмोрдзрди
рдХृрд╖्рдг рдХो рднीрддрд░ рддрдХ рдШाрдпрд▓ рдХрд░ рдЧрдпा
рдлिрд░ рднी рдХिрд╕ी рддрд░рд╣ рдЕрдкрдиे рдЖрдк рдХो рд╕ंрднाрд▓ рд▓िрдпा
рдФрд░ рдмोрд▓े рд░ाрдзा рд╕े .........
рдоै рддो рддुрдо्рд╣ाрд░े рд▓िрдП рдЖрдЬ рднी рдХाрди्рд╣ा рд╣ूँ
рддुрдо рддो рдж्рд╡ाрд░рдХाрдзीрд╢ рдордд рдХрд╣ो!
рдЖрдУ рдмैрдарддे рд╣ै ....
рдХुрдЫ рдоै рдЕрдкрдиी рдХрд╣рддा рд╣ूँ рдХुрдЫ рддुрдо рдЕрдкрдиी рдХрд╣ो
рд╕рдЪ рдХрд╣ूँ рд░ाрдзा рдЬрдм рдЬрдм рднी рддुрдо्рд╣ाрд░ी рдпाрдж рдЖрддी рдеी
рдЗрди рдЖँрдЦों рд╕े рдЖँрд╕ुрдУं рдХी рдмुँрджे рдиिрдХрд▓ рдЖрддी рдеी рдмोрд▓ी рд░ाрдзा ,рдоेрд░े рд╕ाрде рдРрд╕ा рдХुрдЫ рдирд╣ीं рд╣ुрдЖ
рдиा рддुрдо्рд╣ाрд░ी рдпाрдж рдЖрдИ рдиा рдХोрдИ рдЖंрд╕ू рдмрд╣ा
рдХ्рдпूंрдХि рд╣рдо рддुрдо्рд╣े рдХрднी рднूрд▓े рд╣ी рдХрд╣ाँ рдеे
рдЬो рддुрдо рдпाрдж рдЖрддे
рдЗрди рдЖँрдЦों рдоें рд╕рджा рддुрдо рд░рд╣рддे рдеे
рдХрд╣ीं рдЖँрд╕ुрдУं рдХे рд╕ाрде рдиिрдХрд▓ рдиा рдЬाрдУ
рдЗрд╕рд▓िрдП рд░ोрддे рднी рдирд╣ीं рдеे
рдк्рд░ेрдо рдХे рдЕрд▓рдЧ рд╣ोрдиे рдкрд░ рддुрдордиे рдХ्рдпा рдЦोрдпा
рдЗрд╕рдХा рдЗрдХ рдЖрдЗрдиा рджिрдЦाрдКं рдЖрдкрдХो ?
рдХुрдЫ рдХрдбрд╡े рд╕рдЪ ,рдк्рд░рд╢्рди рд╕ुрди рдкाрдУ рддो рд╕ुрдиाрдК?
рдХрднी рд╕ोрдЪा рдЗрд╕ рддрд░рдХ्рдХी рдоें рддुрдо рдХिрддрдиे рдкिрдЫрдб़ рдЧрдП
рдпрдоुрдиा рдХे рдоीрдаे рдкाрдиी рд╕े рдЬिंрджрдЧी рд╢ुрд░ू рдХी
рдФрд░ рд╕рдоुрди्рдж्рд░ рдХे рдЦाрд░े рдкाрдиी рддрдХ рдкрд╣ुрдЪ рдЧрдП ?
рдПрдХ рдКँрдЧрд▓ी рдкрд░ рдЪрд▓рдиे рд╡ाрд▓े рд╕ुрджрд░्рд╢рди рдЪрдХ्рд░рдкрд░
рднрд░ोрд╕ा рдХрд░ рд▓िрдпा рдФрд░
рджрд╕ों рдЙँрдЧрд▓िрдпों рдкрд░ рдЪрд▓рдиे рд╡ाрд│ी
рдмांрд╕ुрд░ी рдХो рднूрд▓ рдЧрдП ?
рдХाрди्рд╣ा рдЬрдм рддुрдо рдк्рд░ेрдо рд╕े рдЬुрдб़े рдеे рддो ....
рдЬो рдКँрдЧрд▓ी рдЧोрд╡рд░्рдзрди рдкрд░्рд╡рдд рдЙрдаाрдХрд░ рд▓ोрдЧों рдХो рд╡िрдиाрд╢ рд╕े рдмрдЪाрддी рдеी рдк्рд░ेрдо рд╕े рдЕрд▓рдЧ рд╣ोрдиे рдкрд░ рд╡рд╣ी рдКँрдЧрд▓ी
рдХ्рдпा рдХ्рдпा рд░ंрдЧ рджिрдЦाрдиे рд▓рдЧी
рд╕ुрджрд░्рд╢рди рдЪрдХ्рд░ рдЙрдаाрдХрд░ рд╡िрдиाрд╢ рдХे рдХाрдо рдЖрдиे рд▓рдЧी
рдХाрди्рд╣ा рдФрд░ рдж्рд╡ाрд░рдХाрдзीрд╢ рдоें
рдХ्рдпा рдлрд░्рдХ рд╣ोрддा рд╣ै рдмрддाрдКँ
рдХाрди्рд╣ा рд╣ोрддे рддो рддुрдо рд╕ुрджाрдоा рдХे рдШрд░ рдЬाрддे
рд╕ुрджाрдоा рддुрдо्рд╣ाрд░े рдШрд░ рдирд╣ीं рдЖрддा
рдпुрдж्рдз рдоें рдФрд░ рдк्рд░ेрдо рдоें рдпрд╣ी рддो рдлрд░्рдХ рд╣ोрддा рд╣ै
рдпुрдж्рдз рдоें рдЖрдк рдоिрдЯाрдХрд░ рдЬीрддрддे рд╣ैं
рдФрд░ рдк्рд░ेрдо рдоें рдЖрдк рдоिрдЯрдХрд░ рдЬीрддрддे рд╣ैं
рдХाрди्рд╣ा рдк्рд░ेрдо рдоें рдбूрдмा рд╣ुрдЖ рдЖрджрдоी
рджुрдЦी рддो рд░рд╣ рд╕рдХрддा рд╣ै
рдкрд░ рдХिрд╕ी рдХो рджुःрдЦ рдирд╣ीं рджेрддा
рдЖрдк рддो рдХрдИ рдХрд▓ाрдУं рдХे рд╕्рд╡ाрдоी рд╣ो
рд╕्рд╡рдк्рди рджूрд░ рдж्рд░рд╖्рдЯा рд╣ो
рдЧीрддा рдЬैрд╕े рдЧ्рд░рди्рде рдХे рджाрддा рд╣ो
рдкрд░ рдЖрдкрдиे рдХ्рдпा рдиिрд░्рдгрдп рдХिрдпा
рдЕрдкрдиी рдкूрд░ी рд╕ेрдиा рдХौрд░рд╡ों рдХो рд╕ौंрдк рджी?
рдФрд░ рдЕрдкрдиे рдЖрдкрдХो рдкांрдбрд╡ों рдХे рд╕ाрде рдХрд░ рд▓िрдпा
рд╕ेрдиा рддो рдЖрдкрдХी рдк्рд░рдЬा рдеी
рд░ाрдЬा рддो рдкाрд▓ाрдХ рд╣ोрддा рд╣ै
рдЙрд╕рдХा рд░рдХ्рд╖рдХ рд╣ोрддा рд╣ै
рдЖрдк рдЬैрд╕ा рдорд╣ा рдЬ्рдЮाрдиी
рдЙрд╕ рд░рде рдХो рдЪрд▓ा рд░рд╣ा рдеा рдЬिрд╕ рдкрд░ рдмैрдаा рдЕрд░्рдЬुрди
рдЖрдкрдХी рдк्рд░рдЬा рдХो рд╣ी рдоाрд░ рд░рд╣ा рдеा
рдЖрдкрдиी рдк्рд░рдЬा рдХो рдорд░рддे рджेрдЦ
рдЖрдкрдоें рдХрд░ूрдгा рдирд╣ीं рдЬрдЧी
рдХ्рдпूंрдХि рдЖрдк рдк्рд░ेрдо рд╕े рд╢ूрди्рдп рд╣ो рдЪुрдХे рдеे
рдЖрдЬ рднी рдзрд░рддी рдкрд░ рдЬाрдХрд░ рджेрдЦो
рдЕрдкрдиी рдж्рд╡ाрд░рдХाрдзीрд╢ рд╡ाрд│ी рдЫрд╡ि рдХो
рдвूंрдврддे рд░рд╣ рдЬाрдУрдЧे рд╣рд░ рдШрд░ рд╣рд░ рдоंрджिрд░ рдоें
рдоेрд░े рд╕ाрде рд╣ी рдЦрдб़े рдирдЬрд░ рдЖрдУрдЧे
рдЖрдЬ рднी рдоै рдоाрдирддी рд╣ूँ
рд▓ोрдЧ рдЧीрддा рдХे рдЬ्рдЮाрди рдХी рдмाрдд рдХрд░рддे рд╣ैं
рдЙрдирдХे рдорд╣рдд्рд╡ рдХी рдмाрдд рдХрд░рддे рд╣ै
рдордЧрд░ рдзрд░рддी рдХे рд▓ोрдЧ
рдпुрдж्рдз рд╡ाрд▓े рдж्рд╡ाрд░рдХाрдзीрд╢ рдкрд░ рдирд╣ीं
рдк्рд░ेрдо рд╡ाрд▓े рдХाрди्рд╣ा рдкрд░ рднрд░ोрд╕ा рдХрд░рддे рд╣ैं
рдЧीрддा рдоें рдоेрд░ा рджूрд░ рджूрд░ рддрдХ рдиाрдо рднी рдирд╣ीं рд╣ै
рдкрд░ рдЖрдЬ рднी рд▓ोрдЧ рдЙрд╕рдХे рд╕рдоाрдкрди рдкрд░
" рд░ाрдзे рд░ाрдзे" рдХрд░рддे рд╣ैं 

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Indian Parents - please stop spending on weddings


Thursday, July 11, 2013

Short Story : Counting the Apples in the Classroom

A teacher teaching Maths to seven-year-old Deep asked him, "If I give you one apple and one apple and one apple, how many apples will you have?"Within a few seconds Deep replied confidently, "Four!"
 
The dismayed teacher was expecting an effortless correct answer (three). She was disappointed. "Maybe the child did not listen properly," she thought. She repeated, "Deep, listen carefully. If I give you one apple and one apple and one apple, how many apples will you have?"
 
Deep had seen the disappointment on his teacher's face. He calculated again on his fingers. But within him he was also searching for the answer that will make the teacher happy. His search for the answer was not for the correct one, but the one that will make his teacher happy. This time hesitatingly he replied, "Four…"
 
The disappointment stayed on the teacher's face. She remembered that Deep liked strawberries. She thought maybe he doesn't like apples and that is making him loose focus. This time with an exaggerated excitement and twinkling in her eyes she asked, "If I give you one strawberry and one strawberry and one strawberry, then how many you will have?"
 
Seeing the teacher happy, young Deep calculated on his fingers again. There was no pressure on him, but a little on the teacher. She wanted her new approach to succeed. With a hesitating smile young Deep enquired, "Three?"
 
The teacher now had a victorious smile. Her approach had succeeded. She wanted to congratulate herself. But one last thing remained. Once again she asked him, "Now if I give you one apple and one apple and one more apple how many will you have?"
 
Promptly Deep answered, "Four!"
 
The teacher was aghast. "How Deep, how?" she demanded in a little stern and irritated voice.
 
In a voice that was low and hesitating young Deep replied, "Because I already have one apple in my bag."
 
 
 
"When someone gives you an answer that is different from what you expect don't think they are wrong. There maybe an angle that you have not understood at all. You will have to listen and understand, but never listen with a predetermined notion."

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Just Because..

Accept yourself! Insecurity is what’s ugly, not you. Be you, just the way you are, in the beautiful way only you know how. The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. You must love who you are or no one else will either. And when you are truly comfortable in your own skin, not everyone will like you, but you won’t care about it one bit. 


Mother & Daughter


Unconditionol love and care which binds this beautiful relationship in the world is priceless.
Value it and Treasure it!!

Sometimes the best gifts in life are the troubles you don’t have.


The last of your freedoms is to choose your attitude in any given circumstance. Complaining, blaming and criticizing aren’t going to change the situation. It is not always easy to find happiness in ourselves, but it is always impossible t
o find it elsewhere. Regardless of the situation you face, your attitude is your choice. Remember, you can’t have a positive life with a negative attitude. 

Friday, May 31, 2013

Love and Respect your Wife

There is no one-size-fits-all formula for being a wonderful husband. Every wife and every marriage is different. But there are some common issues that many married couples face, and if you're dealing with them, the following guidelines will help you become a better husband.

Steps

Be Honest

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    Be honest. In a mature relationship, honesty is the best policy. It may be difficult, but the truth will allow relationships to breathe. No matter what happens, no one can ever challenge the fact that you are truthful, which might mean that the other person also gives you the same respect. If something doesn't suit them let them know, otherwise they will not trust your opinion. But make it sound like a compliment.
    • Suggest an alternative, and attach praise to the alternative. For example, if they ask you if you like something they are trying on (trying on, not already wearing at a party!) let them know that it might work, but you think the blue one is your favourite so far because it shows off their great (insert a feature you appreciate, preferably not one that they are self-conscious about).
    • It's not going to be easy to be honest and kind at the same time, so focus on learning how to give a feedback sandwich and you'll both be better off.

Communicate

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    Communicate. Do not talk her ear off, however make sure that if you have any problems that will affect your mood, she is made aware of the reasons for your problems and mood, so that you do not appear to merely be a fickle and cranky creature. Zone out everything around you when you're talking to her. If you ask her a question, ask because you really want to know. For example, ask her what type of movies she enjoys, or about one of her favourites.
    • If you know it, talk about it a little bit in an honest way, what you thought of it, and make a guess at why she might have liked it. Even if you are wrong, your mate will usually love the fact that you are interested enough to try. Remember, the opposite of talking is not waiting, it's listening.
    • Make sure you're actually listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk. Put off a vibe that tells her that she can tell you anything. Make her feel safe.

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    Don't brush your wife off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. A lot of people have been taught that the only way to get attention when their partner is trying to ignore them is to act more emotional and be louder until the partner finally surrenders and pays attention to her, even if in annoyance.
    • If people feel they're being given the cold treatment by people who are supposed to be important to them, they get worried. Especially when it happens without you giving an explanation for why this disturbance has occurred. People aren't mind readers. Your mate is not likely to be able to guess that you're cranky just because they wouldn't let you do something that they felt was very trivial, whereas you found it important.
    • If you know that your mood might lead you to overreact, simply say "I'm feeling really irritated right now. Can we talk about this later after I cool off a bit?" (Don't forget to follow through and actually give her your time later.)

Respect Her

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    Don't show her even the mildest forms of contempt. Contempt is poison in a relationship. You don't have to act like you like what she said or did, but do not take on an attitude of superiority, even subtly in passing, such as momentary smirking, sighs of disgust or eye-rolling. Such gestures, though seemingly insignificant, deeply show a lack of support, respect and trust, especially over a period of time.
    • The way you naturally act towards her should subtly validate her as a person, even when you do not understand or agree with her. Giving eye contact when she has something important to tell you shows respect; not giving eye contact shows disrespect and that you don't care about her or what she has to say. This will destroy any attempt to communicate well.
    • If you show contempt in front of your child(ren) they will then feel that is an appropriate way to treat their mother. A son may feel he can treat his wife with contempt if he witnessed you treat your wife that way.

Be Romantic

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    Be romantic. What "being romantic" means varies widely from person to person, but at its core, romance involves doing something to express affection in a meaningful yet unexpected way. A true act of romance requires creativity and sincerity, often inspired by love (either its presence or its possibility).
    Reintroduce the excitement that characterized the beginning of the relationship. Do something different, something that your wife wouldn't expect. The more out of the ordinary, the better!

    • Treat your wife like they're single, like you're trying to earn her affection and trust. The opposite of being romanced is being taken for granted. No one wants to feel like they've already been "caught" and it's over and done with.
    • There are millions of ways to say "I love you" and "I'm lucky to have you." Think of the world as your medium. You can write it, say it, sculpt it, look it, hide it, shout it, paint it, kiss it, fold it, grow it, touch it, and express it in unlimited ways.
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    Keep your sex life invigorated. Kiss her goodbye in the morning like you don't want her to leave. It gives her something to think about all day. Be romantic. Suggest new ideas. Ask what she likes. Be willing to put her pleasure ahead of yours. Talk about it. Intimacy (emotional and physical closeness) is important to women.

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    Give gifts as a surprise. Anyone can buy a gift for a birthday, Christmas or an anniversary. Listen to her when you are out window shopping, and if there is something she likes, and it's within your price range, remember it and surprise her with it when she least expects it, for no reason at all. Or pick something up on your way home from work, and tell her you were thinking of her when you saw it. It doesn't have to be big or expensive - a book you know she will like, or a CD of her favourite band are nice gestures.

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    Give what she needs. Ask her for what she needs to feel loved by you. If she needs you to give her compliments, learn to master the art of compliments. If she needs to you to come home on time, be on time. If you know that you are going to be late coming home, call her and let her know. If she needs you to help children with homework, spend time with the family instead of going out with your friend, or spend a quality time with her, give it to her. Being married is being of service. You give your wife because you love her. True giving is to give what the other person needs.

Always Be Available

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    Take care of her. Your wife may feel overwhelmed with kids and work. Don't hesitate to cook her favorite food or make her favorite drink. Help with the kids and help around the house (like doing dishes). Wives aren't superwomen as much as you'd like them to be.

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    Be her greatest supporter. Be someone she knows that she can always count on. Be there for her when she has had a long day. Listen to her with attentive eyes and ears. Back her up 100 percent! And always protect her, both physically and emotionally. If you have done something to hurt her, even if you didn't mean to, tell her you are sorry and show her affection. This must be sincere! There's nothing worse than an "I'm sorry" that is put on or phony.
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    Understand that your personal relationship should be more important to you than your other family members, work, friends, etc. She is your partner in all things. Treat her as such. If you're worried about looking independent in front of them, then talk with your wife and set clear expectations about what decisions you can make without each other, and what decisions must absolutely be discussed. But also, ask yourself why you feel you should look independent instead of married. It may not be hard to say "Let me talk this over with my other half."
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    Do your part. Don't make her ask you to pull your own weight around the house. This makes her feel like a nag, and it creates an adult/child relationship. Which is never good. She is your partner not your mother. Show her she can count on you to get things handled.

Be Responsible

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    Seek responsibility and take responsibility for your actions. The main difference between a man and a boy, and adult and a child, is that men are responsible. Men honor their commitments, accept their duties and are accountable for damages they incur, debts they owe and claims they make. Men clean up after themselves (figuratively and literally). Men know that anyone can father a baby but only a man who understands and accepts responsibility can be a good father. Men refuse to make anyone do anything they themselves are unwilling to do. Sometimes men make sacrifices for the people they love and care about. That's life. It's part of growing up, whether you like it or not. The difference between a man and a boy is that a man steps up to the plate, while a boy hesitates or complains.

Mistakes mean you're trying


Thursday, May 16, 2013

What’s meant to be will come your way, what’s not will fall away.

Photo: Don’t allow yourself to be crippled by stress and anger.  Everything is only as it is.  There’s no reason to let it destroy you.  Breathe in, breathe out.  Relax.  Let every moment be what it’s going to be.  What’s meant to be will come your way, what’s not will fall away.  And remember that a wonderful gift may not always be wrapped as you expect. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2013/01/08/12-things-you-should-never-stop-doing/

Be Happy.. Be Yourself..

Believe in youself