I CAN is 100 times more important than IQ

 If you’re smiling right now, you’re doing something right. Love yourself first and everything falls into line.
 Never loose hope, faith or dream in life. Say I CANand follow your heart. Don`t compromise and always remember Cheaters can cheat and steal but the can never take away what is destined for you.
 Follow these rules which I have learnt from my personal experience. Maybe It can help you too

1. It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel.
2. The biggest mistake you can make is doing nothing because you’re scared to make a mistake.
3. No matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should be.  Either you succeed or you learn something.  Win-Win.
4. Freedom is the greatest gift.  Self-sufficiency is the greatest freedom.
5. If you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop.  You’re on to something big.  Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate on your passions.
6. It’s not about getting a chance, it’s about taking a chance.  You’ll rarely be 100% sure it will work.  But you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work.  Sometimes you just have to go for it!
7. Complaining is like slapping yourself for slapping yourself.  It doesn’t solve the problem, it just hurts you more.
8. The one with nothing to hide is always the one left standing tall.
9. You can press forward long after you can’t.  It’s just a matter of wanting it bad enough.
10. There’s a big difference between knowing and doing.  Knowledge is basically useless without action.
11. In work and business, when they need you more than you need them, you have succeeded.
12. Everything that happens in life is neither good nor bad.  It just depends on your perspective.
13. We are all weird.  And life is weird.  And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we call it love.
14. True friendship and true love do sustain the tests of distance and time.
15. You can’t change who you are.  You can only change what you know and how you apply this knowledge.
16. It is okay to be angry.  It is never okay to be cruel.
17. Even when you feel like you have nothing, someone else likely has far less.  Find them and help them.  You’ll see why.
18. Having a thousand credentials on the wall will not make you a decent human being.  But genuinely helping one person everyday will.
19. Remember, change happens for a reason.  Roll with it.  It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it.

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How to Stop worrying and Start Living

Why Worry?

   Introduction It has a worryholic? Are you one of those: Mulls thoughts on? Chews and chews on an idea like a dog with a bone? Beats a thought of death only to discover that you won anything?

   If it is not good news. You can learn to stop worrying. You can delete and start enjoying every minute of his life.

   You can learn to live at this time. Concern is addictive. You can recover.

   I would learn to:

   Take life as it comes?

   Live quietly one day at a time?

   Know that their fears are unfounded?

   FEAR

   Fear is false evidence of Real

   Concern Makes Your Life Emmett Fox, renowned spiritual teacher, tells us that "What we give our attention to will become our life. What we continually think about and worry more will eventually become our life experience. "

   What you allow your conscious mind to dwell on the seeds that will produce the subconscious mind will grow and plant in their life experience.

   This is not debate, which dwells in your mind come into fruition.

   Characteristics of a Worryholic Worriers have general characteristics. Check yourself against the list and if you find there. Are you a worryholic.

   Worriers:

   They are selfish

   Find fault with others

   Gossip Blame others for your situation

   Use a lot of "Yes, Buts"

   They are slaves to the opinions of others

   Spend more time thinking then doing

   See yourself here? You can change these patterns. Become aware of yourself and stop when you fall into one of these traps.

   A wonderful serenity prayer says it all: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, courage to change things I can, and wisdom to know the difference."

   Thought and Understanding Worry

   We touch the surface, but the study of three parts of the mind. I strongly recommend that you continue to study more.

   There are three facets of the mind are:

   The conscious mind. This would be the farmer spreading seed. Your thoughts are the seeds that are sent to the subconscious mind. If you constantly plant seeds of worry, doubt and negativity, then that will be your experience.

   The subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is the soil. Accepts the seed of the conscious mind sends it. Do not judge or criticize, it starts to work in the production of his thoughts.

   Super conscious mind. This would be the universal spirit, the greater power, God or whatever you choose to call it.

   Inside the Super conscious mind is:

   Infinite wisdom

   Infinite power

   Infinite supply

   Infinite Intelligence

   It's part of mind that gives us inspiration, Ah ha moments and skill.

   Your need not worry again that you get the power of the mind.

   92% of experts agreed that concerns Ninety-two percent of the concerns are unnecessary.

   Do not bother:

   The past - We can not do anything about it.

   The future - events that may not worry if materialized.

   Our health - Making it worse

   Eight percent of our other concerns are of two types:

   1. The problems that we can do nothing about

   2. The problems that we can do something

   What to do? No need to worry about those you can not do anything about it. So spend your time doing something about the problems they can solve. Take Action.

   Summary To summarize, you need to determine whether you are a worryholic. If you're reading this article, chances are good that you are.

   You must accept that worrying does nothing constructive for their lives.

   You want at least a minimal understanding of the three parts of the mind.

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