Monday, August 27, 2007

Be Mother Teressa not Mallika!!

12:51:00 PM  Hetal Mehta  10 comments

I feel women are made by god to be much more sensitive and mature and complete than men. And that’s their beauty.They are elegant and caring and have this delicate sense about them. And their liberation lies in being able to do what they wish , but not in disregarding the modesty and elegance which is the essence of feminism. I mean , if a girl thinks her freedom is in wearing minimal clothes in public , she needs to see the thousands of ordinary girls all over India , who wear cotton salwaar suits and may be termed “behenjis” or “orthodox” , but have an inner confidence to go out and work as teachers and nurses , instead of being a Mallika

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well Hetal,First of all i would like to appreciate your Blog..This is really a good stuff.All the things which u have written are correct except this statement "woman are made by god to be much more sensitive and mature and complete than men".i am not saying this bcz i m also a guy,as a matter of fact it is a myth that women are mature etc in comparision to man.you can'nt say yaar which one is complete/mature/sensitive ..it depends on lots of parameters.Hence it is controversial to say that Girls are more complete than man....Now come to the another point very rightly said that girls should not think that their freedom lies in wearing miniamal clothes...The parameters to get freedom for girls are slightly diffrent than clothes minimisation...In the last this is a message for all girls plz dont think to be Mallika ...Be simple(as Real beauty lies in simplicity) and think best.....

Can anybody tell me what is soooo bad in Mallika. why everybody shout donot be like Mallika. In your blog u yourself said that clothes r not imp than why people consider Mallika as a vamp.
like a coin every thing have 2 faces why u all guys see only negative in this why not u see that she infuse so much confidence in girls that like boys u also have freedom to do what u want.why Indian mentality ends at cloths. why u cant see the guts and braveness in her.if anybody want to be like mother Teressa it is not necessary she wear saree or suit only.A girl like Mallika also can be mother Teressa. This is the time when we have to think beyond all these things.Grow up guys.
your blog is right but not title

i m agree wid deepti. mother terasa banane ke liye thoughts aur determination matter karta hai na hi clothes.

Agreed, but wudn't that be like being out of fashion? And i believe its the city girls today who want to be ultra modern mallikas and show that they are in fashion...They are empowered is true, but to use or misuse that is their sole authority

Hey i don't think she(mallika) is doing anything wrong,she is doing this because its her job,,,
those who think that those girls who wear cotton saree or suit r behejis,actually they r sick,they should change their thinking,,,,
& last but not the least this society don't leave nyone,those who wear cotton suits they call them behenjis &those who wear minimal clothes,unpe comments kasne c toh ye(society)kabhi peeche rehti hi nahi.....one should try to see the quality of a person not clothes,
and yes whatever mother teressa has done is really laudable & unforgettable....

I think clothes really doest matter.The things that matter are the kind of work a person does.Whether it may be a girl wearing a saree or a girl wearing ny of the modern dress.Well here i must clear it that mother teressa is also know for her good deeds.and if mallika does the same deeds she will be also known for her work.
Soo pls dont make clothes a issue ,the more important thing is the kind of deeds and the ur true soul.

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Lots Of Fan of Malikkkaa...ha ha ha
Guys I think we are just misunderstanding this blog..
I just took an example of Malikaa in order to show that �we should not feel our freedom in clothes minimization�...Because there are so many aspects which are responsible for our freedom and as a matter of fact they all collectively symbolize our freedom�. what Malika is doing In boll wood she is getting success just because of her clothes (�.) up to the some extent...so that is not a way�that�s why I advised not to follow Malika. She is far beyond the qualities of a Real actress�
Deepti/Preeti said: A girl like Mallika also can be mother Teressa: My View: That is very much right but question raise over here how?� and answer is �only if when she will change herself�.Isn�t?.Actually Clothes is not an issue�Issue is to understand the real meaning of Freedom�
Rupali said: �I don't think she(mallika) is doing anything wrong,she is doing this because its her job,,,��..� My View: but the thing is that is this the way of doing job�in fact it is not advisable at all�
RC�s Second Pt.: �Last but not the least this society don't leave nyone,those who wear cotton suits they call them behenjis &those who wear minimal clothes,unpe comments kasne c toh ye(society)kabhi peeche rehti hi nahi.....one should try to see the quality of a person not clothes �MY Point: First Of all we should not put blame on whole society as you/Me/and all of us are part of society only�but yes there are few one who do this act but we should not put blame on whole society.and as far as taunting bazee of few one�s is concerned then we should avoid there taunting bazzee and all..if applicable.
Dilpreet said: I am Totally Agreed with her views �

So here is a need to understand the meaning of Freedom�

na mailka bano aur na hi Mother Teresa..
Mai to kehta hau ki MOna darling bano.....lolz

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